In short
Elite Mature Mingle is a dating site for professional singles over 45, run by High Intent Media Inc of Delaware, USA. Registering, browsing and saying hello are free; reading and replying to messages is paid. Memberships renew automatically until cancelled. Every photo is reviewed; members' own details are not verified. Profiles are shared with partner sites in one network.
| Run by | High Intent Media Inc, Delaware, USA |
|---|---|
| Free | Register, profile, browse, say hello |
| Paid | Reading and replying to messages |
| Cancel | Settings > Billing, before renewal |
| Checked | Every photo; member details are not verified |
The service
Elite Mature Mingle is a dating site for professional singles over 45, run by a US company and written first for UK readers. These are the basic facts.
| Item | Item |
|---|---|
| What it is | A dating site for professional singles over 45 |
| Main markets | UK first, then the US and Australia |
| Countries accepted at sign-up | Australia, Canada, Guernsey, Ireland, Isle of Man, Jersey, New Zealand, Portugal, South Africa, United Kingdom, United States |
| Minimum age | 18 (21 in Alabama, Mississippi, Nebraska and Wyoming) |
| Registering | Email address, password and date of birth |
| Profile | At least one photo; details such as age range and distance you're open to, children, smoking, drinking, languages, religion and ethnicity |
| Network | One member database shared with partner sites in the same network; profiles show the site each member joined from |
| Run by | High Intent Media Inc, a Delaware corporation (file no. 10670515), registered office 16192 Coastal Highway, Lewes, DE 19958, USA |
| Membership terms | Governed by Delaware law; see the members terms |
More on who runs the site and how it is written is on the About page.
Free and paid
Browsing is free; talking is paid. The table shows exactly where the line falls.
| Item | Item |
|---|---|
| Free | Register, build a profile, browse, say hello |
| Paid membership | Reading and replying to messages; also read receipts, seeing who viewed you, likes and full-size photos |
| Free members | See adverts in the members area |
| Renewal | Automatic, until you cancel |
| Cancel | Settings > Billing, before the renewal date |
| Refunds | Pro-rata, only when at least 40% of the paid period is unused |
| Card statement | The billing name shown at checkout |
| Delete account | Avatar > Settings > Delete Account |
| Join, create a profile, browse | Free |
|---|---|
| Read and reply to messages | Paid membership |
| 1 week | $12.99 |
| 1 month | $24.99 a month |
| 3-day trial | $2.99, then $24.99 a month |
| Optional extras | Profile boosts, priority messages, a 24-hour pass, an ID-verified badge |
US prices as shown in the members area on 16 October 2026; the members area shows the exact price before you pay. Memberships renew automatically until you cancel in Settings > Billing. Check the price and billing details at checkout before you pay.
The prices page explains renewal and refunds in more detail.
What is checked
Photos are checked; what members say about themselves is not. That distinction matters more than any badge.
| Item | Item |
|---|---|
| Photos | Every image is reviewed |
| ID and selfie (by LEM Verify) | Not required by default; can be required for some sign-ups, for example through a VPN, or for flagged accounts |
| ID badge | Optional and paid, for any member |
| Not verified | Job, income, education, age as stated, relationship status, anything members write |
The full explanation is on what is checked, and what isn't.
Where to report a scam
Fraud is the main risk in online dating at any age. If a match asks for money, gift cards or cryptocurrency, stop contact, call your bank if you have paid anything, and report it to the official body where you live.
| Where you live | Report fraud to |
|---|---|
| England, Wales and Northern Ireland | Report Fraud, online or on 0300 123 2040 |
| Scotland | Police Scotland on 101 |
| United States | The Federal Trade Commission at ReportFraud.ftc.gov |
| Australia | ReportCyber if you have lost money or personal information; Scamwatch otherwise |
Getting help
Account, billing and log-in questions go to the members help centre. The contact page explains how to reach it, reset a password, report a profile or tell us about a mistake on this website. For scams and meeting safely, read the safety guide.
Questions people ask
Is Elite Mature Mingle free?
Partly. Registering, building a profile, browsing and showing interest cost nothing. Reading messages and replying need a paid membership, as do features such as read receipts, seeing who viewed you and viewing photos at full size. Free members also see adverts in the members area.
Which countries can join Elite Mature Mingle?
Sign-up accepts people in Australia, Canada, Guernsey, Ireland, the Isle of Man, Jersey, New Zealand, Portugal, South Africa, the United Kingdom and the United States. The site is written first for the UK, then the US and Australia. You must be 18 or over, or 21 in Alabama, Mississippi, Nebraska and Wyoming.
What name appears on my card statement?
The billing name shown at checkout, which may differ from the site's name. Make a note of it when you pay, or keep the confirmation email. If a charge still doesn't make sense, contact the members help centre with the date and amount before raising it with your bank.
How do I delete my account?
Sign in, open your avatar, then go to Settings > Delete Account. Cancelling a membership in Settings > Billing stops future payments but does not remove your profile, so if you want to leave completely, cancel first and then delete the account.
Keep reading
- Dating as a high earner: money, motives and trustHow much to reveal, who pays, unequal incomes, and spotting interest in your money rather than you.
- Dating when you both have grown-up childrenTelling adult children, first introductions, holidays and grandchildren, and the money questions behind many objections.
- Finding a travel companion, safely and on your termsWhere to find a companion, agreeing money and rooms, a safe first trip, travel insurance and travel-themed scams.
- Dating when you've stepped back from full-time workDescribing yourself without the job title, matching pace of life, meeting people and money in retirement.
Sources
- Elite Mature Mingle members terms
- Elite Mature Mingle members privacy policy
- Report Fraud (England, Wales and Northern Ireland)
- Police Scotland
- Federal Trade Commission: ReportFraud
- Australian Cyber Security Centre: ReportCyber
- Scamwatch (Australia)
Checked 18 October 2026. Spotted something out of date? Tell us.